[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.decon.cz\/pokud-chcete-resit-vztahove-problemy-zacnete-u-vlastnich-rodicu\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.decon.cz\/pokud-chcete-resit-vztahove-problemy-zacnete-u-vlastnich-rodicu\/","headline":"Pokud chcete \u0159e\u0161it vztahov\u00e9 probl\u00e9my, za\u010dn\u011bte u vlastn\u00edch rodi\u010d\u016f","name":"Pokud chcete \u0159e\u0161it vztahov\u00e9 probl\u00e9my, za\u010dn\u011bte u vlastn\u00edch rodi\u010d\u016f","description":"St\u00e1le se v\u00e1m neda\u0159\u00ed vy\u0159e\u0161it va\u0161e partnersk\u00e9 probl\u00e9my a \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed jako by se v\u00e1m sama vyh\u00fdbala? M\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee je to v\u0161e a\u017e ne\u0159e\u0161iteln\u00e9? St\u00e1le hled\u00e1te probl\u00e9my ve va\u0161em v\u011bdom\u00e9m v\u00fdb\u011bru partnera nebo v samotn\u00e9m partnerovi? Pokud si st\u00e1le dokola prob\u00edr\u00e1te, co jste m\u011bla ud\u011blat jinak, co jste si \u0159ekli a kde je vlastn\u011b chyba, […]","datePublished":"2019-11-02","dateModified":"2023-05-02","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.decon.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.decon.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/95e04d59dbd953edbb4078d954ab72cca879b754151ff5a1a9844caae0615e95?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/95e04d59dbd953edbb4078d954ab72cca879b754151ff5a1a9844caae0615e95?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"decon.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.decon.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a359243_w3892_t1573315557.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.decon.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a359243_w3892_t1573315557.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.decon.cz\/pokud-chcete-resit-vztahove-problemy-zacnete-u-vlastnich-rodicu\/","about":["Vztahy"],"wordCount":481,"articleBody":"St\u00e1le se v\u00e1m neda\u0159\u00ed vy\u0159e\u0161it va\u0161e partnersk\u00e9 probl\u00e9my a \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed jako by se v\u00e1m sama vyh\u00fdbala? M\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee je to v\u0161e a\u017e ne\u0159e\u0161iteln\u00e9? St\u00e1le hled\u00e1te probl\u00e9my ve va\u0161em v\u011bdom\u00e9m v\u00fdb\u011bru partnera nebo v samotn\u00e9m partnerovi? Pokud si st\u00e1le dokola prob\u00edr\u00e1te, co jste m\u011bla ud\u011blat jinak, co jste si \u0159ekli a kde je vlastn\u011b chyba, v\u011bt\u0161inou se nikam nedoberete. Podv\u011bdom\u00ed je to, kde je pot\u0159eba za\u010d\u00edt a to n\u00e1s vede k rodi\u010d\u016fm.  B\u011bhem prvn\u00edch t\u0159\u00ed let \u017eivota jsou pro mal\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b rodi\u010de cel\u00fdm sv\u011btem. Od nich a jejich l\u00e1sky k n\u011bmu, se odv\u00edj\u00ed prakticky cel\u00fd sv\u011bt. A pr\u00e1v\u011b tady za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 ta pot\u00ed\u017e. Je to, jako bychom po narozen\u00ed dostali \u0161upl\u00ed\u010dek s cedulkou l\u00e1ska. Do n\u011bho vkl\u00e1d\u00e1me \u00fapln\u011b v\u0161e, co se v interakci s rodi\u010di stane. Nedok\u00e1\u017eeme rozli\u0161it, \u017ee by n\u00e1s n\u011bkdo nem\u011bl r\u00e1d, ubl\u00ed\u017eil n\u00e1m nebo se k n\u00e1m nechoval ide\u00e1ln\u011b. Nev\u00edme toti\u017e, jak takov\u00fd ide\u00e1l m\u00e1 vypadat. Nedok\u00e1\u017eeme rozeznat ani dvojsmysly nebo pochopi, \u017ee \u201eon to tak nemyslel\u201c \u010di vid\u011bt to, \u017ee m\u00e1 n\u011bkdo \u0161patnou n\u00e1ladu a to jak se k n\u00e1m zachoval, se n\u00e1s vlastn\u011b net\u00fdkalo. Pokud se k n\u00e1m tedy n\u011bkdo v d\u011btstv\u00ed chov\u00e1 nep\u011bkn\u011b, automaticky si to za\u0159ad\u00edme do \u0161upl\u00ed\u010dku l\u00e1ska a v dosp\u011blosti o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1me, \u017ee pokud n\u00e1s n\u011bkdo miluje, bude se k n\u00e1m automaticky takto chovat. Nastav\u00edme si jakousi vlastn\u00ed vnit\u0159n\u00ed rovnici, podle kter\u00e9 budeme m\u00edt p\u0159edstavu, \u017ee \u010d\u00edm v\u00edc se k n\u00e1m bude partner takto chovat, t\u00edm v\u00edc n\u00e1s vlastn\u011b miluje.  Proto pokud si vy sama nebo va\u0161e kamar\u00e1dka neust\u00e1le hled\u00e1te partnery, kte\u0159\u00ed maj\u00ed omezuj\u00edc\u00ed a n\u00e1silnick\u00e9 sklony, pod\u00edvejte se prvn\u011b na to, jak\u00e9 jste vlastn\u011b m\u011bla d\u011btstv\u00ed. Byla jste sv\u011bdkem n\u00e1sil\u00ed v rodin\u011b? Omezovali v\u00e1s rodi\u010de? \u0160et\u0159ili na v\u00e1s nebo v\u00e1m nebyli schopni projevit l\u00e1sku? Teprve a\u017e dojdete k tomuhle uv\u011bdom\u011bn\u00ed a budete schopny s t\u00edm pracovat, mu\u017ei kter\u00e9 si p\u0159itahujete do vlastn\u00edho \u017eivota, se za\u010dnou m\u011bnit. Pokud si sv\u00e9 d\u011btstv\u00ed nepamatujete, zkuste si promluvit s rodi\u010di a zeptat se p\u0159\u00edmo jich. P\u0159\u00edmo v\u00e1m asi ne\u0159eknou, zda bylo n\u011bco v nepo\u0159\u00e1dku, ale mnoh\u00e9 lze vy\u010d\u00edst mezi \u0159\u00e1dky. Nikdy nen\u00ed pozd\u011b sv\u00e9 probl\u00e9my a nedo\u0159e\u0161en\u00e9 emoce za\u010d\u00edt \u0159e\u0161it.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         4.1\/5 - (11 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Pokud chcete \u0159e\u0161it vztahov\u00e9 probl\u00e9my, za\u010dn\u011bte u vlastn\u00edch rodi\u010d\u016f","item":"https:\/\/www.decon.cz\/pokud-chcete-resit-vztahove-problemy-zacnete-u-vlastnich-rodicu\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]